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Sunday, March 29, 2026


It Only Takes One

   

By Terry Whalin @terrywhalin

As an author, on the surface some of my actions look like failures. Then I have to recall that it only takes one new connection to make a difference. Like the image I have for this article with the highlighted puzzle piece. Without this final piece, the puzzle does not work or look whole.

A couple of months ago, I spoke at a Publicity Club meeting. Before the meeting, I promoted it on social media to my various connections. Also I added it to these articles in The Writing Life which each week reaches several hundred people on their email. When the event happened, a small audience of  six people attended. 

As a speaker, I’ve had this experience in the past. For example, at a large conference where each workshop is recorded, I’ve spoken in a packed room where they are dragging in chairs from another room. At this same event and on other years, I’ve spoken with one or two people for my audience. No matter how many people, each time I speak with enthusiasm and insight. You never know what can happen with those people in front of you.

Let’s go back to the publicity club event with a small crowd. During the event, I gave them my Morgan James Publishing contact information and encouraged their submission. It’s something I do often in these meetings. When I receive an email submission, I like to process it as soon as possible but that doesn’t always happen. Sometimes that submission gets stuck in the draft folder of my work email.

On a regular basis, people read about my special offer on 10 Publishing Myths where they can get my printed book for only $10 including the shipping along with over $200 of free bonuses. Like some of you, occasionally I have some technical issue that prevents me from mailing the book right away. During one of my tech challenge periods, an attendee from the Publicity Club ordered my book. After it didn’t come for several weeks, she followed up and asked about her printed book and mentioned she had a young adult novel. 

I looked through my records, found the missing entry, packed a book for her and put it into the mail. Also I followed up about the young adult novel and asked her to send it to me. That same day she responded that a month or two earlier she had already sent me her submission. When I searched for it, her submission was stuck in my draft folder. I moved the submission forward through the process.

Speaking with this author, I learned this submission was the second book in a trilogy of novels. The author had self-published the first and third novel in the series. She sold a substantial number herself but taken these novels out of print. Other in the publishing community had told her that no publisher would be interested in re-releasing these self-published books. That information about publishing wasn’t true. 

Also I learned this author had extensive writing and publishing experience. Publishers including editors like me are actively looking for these types of authors. I encouraged this author to send me the details I needed to champion her book to my publishing colleagues. I wanted to try and get a book contract for the first novel in the trilogy.

Last week I learned my colleagues agreed and wanted to offer this author a contract for her young adult novel. Nothing has been finalized with this situation and the contract hasn’t been signed. I understand authors have many publishing options. I believe Morgan James Publishing offers the best path. Not everyone agrees with me and that is OK too.

Ive written a number of details in this story for several reasons. For every author (even the unpublished or traditional published), there are insights:

1. It only takes one person in the room to respond to your teaching for it to be worthwhile. When you teach, you don’t know who will be that person.

2. No one can know the needs or intention of another person unless you talk and listen to them then follow through with action.

3. Every author has to explore many different options to find the right path for their book and readers. You have to learn the information, then actively use that information. It’s worthless to have results if you don’t do something proactive.

4. On a consistent basis, keep making new connections and offering to help others. You never know where those connections will lead or when one of them will become significant. Use LinkedIN or online groups or in person meetings to expand your connections to the world.

5. When you submit and do not hear any response, use the gentle follow-up with that professional. Did they receive your submission? Do you need to resend it? Unless you ask, you have no idea what that other person is going through. A simple question could lead you to a remarkable opportunity.

6. Persistence and consistency pays off. Whatever you are writing, take the long view. At first, it may look like nothing is happening but keep at it and if you don’t give up, you will find the right open door.

Where are you getting silence or rejection? How are you expanding and using your connections to reach more people? Let me know in the comments below. Remember: it only takes one.

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My Writing In Other Places:

With these articles, I encourage you to publish your work beyond your blog in other places. Below are three articles which were published in other online locations than this blog.


Each month I guest blog on Writers on the Move. This month I wrote about how new habits and experimentation can increase the productivity of your writing life. You can read this article at: https://bit.ly/4rvr8GN  


Also each month I guest blog on the Blue Ridge Mountains Christian Writer’s Conference blog. I wrote about the importance of boundaries in your writing life at: https://bit.ly/4t1eD7i 


Finally once a month I guest blog about book proposal creation on Almost An Author. This month I answered the question, How Many Pages in a Book Proposal? at:  https://bit.ly/41whrgH 


During my decades in publishing, I’ve co-authored over a dozen books and reviewed thousands of submissions (no exaggeration). As a part of the process of working with these authors, I speak with them about their dreams and plans. Many of these authors have  unrealistic expectations about what will happen with their published book. Many aspects of the publishing process are outside of anything an author can control. I wrote 10 PUBLISHING MYTHS to give authors practical help. You can get decades of insights in 10 PUBLISHING MYTHS for only $10, free shipping and over $200 of bonuses. 


Do you need a better submission? I’m teaching a free Live Webinar on Tuesday, April 21st at 6 pm Eastern. I’m an acquisitions editor at my third publisher and have reviewed thousands of submissions. Register and details at: https://bit.ly/4lIx91y


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Sunday, March 22, 2026


Everyone Gets Rejected

  

By Terry Whalin @terrywhalin

When I opened the email, I moaned internally, “Rejected again.” Several times this past week, I heard from authors where I had championed their book and received a contract from my colleagues. These authors wrote gracious emails to me but the bottom-line was they were going to pass on our Morgan James Publishing contract offer. I understand there are many choices in the publishing world. After decades in publishing, I believe our choice is the best way to get your book into the bookstores.

We are not a self-publisher and Morgan James pays for all of the books that are shipped to bookstores. Any bookstore can keep the book for the lifetime of the book, then return it for a complete refund. Admittedly the economic pressure is on the publisher for this effort and it can amount to thousands of dollars.

As an editor, I do not make the decisions which book we publish but I have a role in that process. The team evaluates the manuscript and decides if we offer a publishing contract. Less than 3% of the 5,000 submissions we receive each year gets a contract offer. There is definitely a consideration process and I champion authors and their manuscript to my colleagues. I get invested in the authors message and their books. Thats why it doesnt feel good when the author decides to pass on our contract offer. Everyone (even editors) get rejected.

On the surface, publishing looks simple and straight forward. Write a manuscript then publish a book. Yet there is a great deal of complexity built into each step in the process. Do you want a traditional publisher with a large reach to readers? Then you need to first find a literary agent because those big publishers will not look at your submission or speak with you? The complications begin with many critical choices along the journey. At the time, you may not understand it is a critical choice until later in the journey.

Also many authors dont understand because of the growth in self-publishing, there are about 11,000 new books that are published every day. This fact amounts to huge competition between authors to find readers and sell their books.

Ive met authors who have invested $6,000 or even $20,000 with publishers and later understand those self-publishers (which they do not call themselves) are only online. Nothing is sold in brick and mortar bookstores. When an author selects these companies to publish their book, they also dont understand they are establishing a public sales record of their book. Many years ago, publishers and agents didnt have access to this information but now they do through an expensive subscription to Nielsen Book Scan. If someone wants to know about your book sales, with a subscription and a few keystrokes they can get the information. These professionals use this sales information to make wise decisions about your manuscript submission. 

For the author, they may not respond (ghost you) or send you a polite rejection letter but these decisions are being made all the time.

At the end of the day, each of us in the publishing community have to make our own choices. Its called free will.

How do you make a wise publishing choice?

The first step is to get educated about the possibilities. I always encourage authors to meet publishing professionals face to face at a writers conference. I meet many author who have never been to a conference. It takes investment, time and energy to attend and make new relationships. Heres a list of some possibilities. In May, I will be at the Blue Ridge Mountains Christian Writers Conference (follow this link to learn more). When you go, meet as many people as you can at meals and in the hallway. Im rarely in my room alone but Im talking with people the entire conference. Ask good questions and bring your business cards and one-page pitches. After the conference, send the editor or agent what they have requested. Many people do not follow through so be the exception.

As you make new relatiohships and explore your options, you will be able to determine your path to publishing.

Heres another resource thats free and you don't have to travel. David Hancock, the founder of Morgan James Publishing, has a new book called The Babylon Blueprint for Authors. Follow this link and get the free Ebook. It has a lot of great marketing insight. The key reason I'm encouraging you to get it is about 40 pages which  compare the three main paths to publish: traditional, self-publishing and hybrid or independent publishing. As you study these details, you will get some clarity about your next steps in the publishing journey.

To show you that everyone gets rejected, I want to finish this article with a reminder. The co-authors of Chicken Soup for the Soul Jack Canfield and Mark Victor Hansen were rejected 140 times. Mark tells the story in the foreword of my book, Jumpstart Your Publishing Dreams. Follow this link to download the foreword and first chapter. They told their small publisher they were going to sell a million books during the first year. Their publisher laughed because they had not sold a million copies of any book. It took Jack and Mark a year and a half to sell their first million books. They practiced the Rule of Five and worked hard to get those readers and booksales. Many authors never take those actions but I encourage you to follow their example and be different.

For you to find the right fit for your book will take work but is possible. If I can help you, let me know.

How does this message that everyone gets rejected resonate with you? Let me know your experience with rejection in the comments below.

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New Podcasts:

In these articles, Ive encouraged you to use PodMatch or some similar tool to book and record podcasts. Last week two more podcast recording launched:


Shilo Creed and I spoke about How to Get a Book Published: What Most Writers Get Wrong on The Authors Mind Podcast. Listen (https://bit.ly/4bdHM9d) or watch at: https://bit.ly/4ryDBJK 


Sharon C. Jenkins (@Sharon_Jenkins) and I spoke about breaking the 10 myths of publishing on the Doing Love Gods Way with Dr. J Podcast at: https://bit.ly/4rE4RGY


Currently I’m working with my third publisher as an acquisitions editor. During these years, I’ve spoken with many authors about their expectations, dreams and desires for their books. I find many unrealistic expectations. Many aspects of the publishing process are outside of anything an author can control. I wrote 10 PUBLISHING MYTHS to give authors practical help. You can get decades of insights in 10 PUBLISHING MYTHS for only $10, free shipping and over $200 of bonuses. 

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Sunday, March 15, 2026


Selling Books During War


By Terry Whalin @terrywhalin

As a life-long journalist, I follow the news and major world-wide events. While I care about these events, in general they do not touch my work in publishing--but they did last week and this article will tell these stories.

For the last 13 years, Ive worked at Morgan James Publishing which has a global business working with authors and selling books. One day last week, David Hancock, our founder, began receiving a series of texts and emails from author concerned about their books on Amazon being unavailable. As he looked into it, all of our books were not available which was strange and then he learned the reason.

Amazon was shut down for five hours. Why? The Iranians bombed and destroyed two data centers. One of them was in Iran and the other was in the United Arab Emirates (UAE). One of these data centers had the data for Amazon and it took their technicians several hours to restore their service.  

For many authors, Amazon is a key part of their bookselling effort. They are a large Morgan James customer but only 24% of our overall business.  As David Hancock likes to say, we are selling our books in 98% of the bookstores in North America including the brick and mortar bookstores. If Amazon isnt working then you have many different other places to purchase our books. This diversity for our distribution is an important aspect of bookselling. 

Our Morgan James team encourages authors when they set up their websites to “share the bookselling love.” Dont send all your readers to Amazon but include links to other locations like your local independent bookseller, Barnes and Noble, BooksAMillion and give your readers the option to buy an autographed copy directly from you, the author. As an example, look at how I set up my book site for Jumpstart Your Publishing Dreams with these various buy buttons. Notice I include an Amazon button but it is intentionally the last one on the list.

Booksellers do not like Amazon because right or wrong, they believe this company has destroyed their business. Years ago at a conference when I was talking with a bookseller about my Book Proposals That Sell book, with pride, I mentioned this book had over 100 Five Star Amazon reviews. 

“I dont care about Amazon reviews,” the bookseller retorted. It was my last time using this statement. Instead I told about the book having over 100 five star reviews and left out the word Amazon. 

In 2019, Morgan James published a business book from Steve Anderson named The Bezos Letters: 14 Principles to Grow Your Business Like Amazon. As you can imagine, it is impossible to avoid the word Amazon inside this book. As expected when the book released, Barnes & Noble, BooksAMillion and other national bookstore accounts refused to carry and sell the book. Yet The Bezos Letters was a USA Today and Wall Street Journal bestseller (as noted on the cover). Through the years, it has been a steady and continual seller. 

A little over a year ago, these booksellers changed course and began to stock The Bezos Letters. The selling track record of this book overcame their objections about the word Amazon. Booksellers are in the business of selling books to their customers. 

Lessons for Every Author

-Whether we know it or not, as authors, we are a part of a global economy. The war and bookselling can be disruptive to us.

-No matter how you publish, diversity where your books are sold--not just Amazon.

-If you diversity, then a disruption on one online store --even a major one like Amazon--will not affect your book sales.

-Where you publish and their distribution should be an important part of your decision process. As an author, you want your books to be sold everywhere. Then readers don’t have to go to a particular website or location to buy your books. 

-Finally as an author, dont constantly watch your Amazon page then contact your publisher if you see your book is unavailable. Its nothing that Ive ever done with my many books with different publishers. There are better ways to spend your time.

How are you selling your books? Are you diversified or only on Amazon and your own website? Let me know in the comments below what action steps you are going to take. I look forward to your comments.

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Let’s be honest. Publishing is a complex business and much of the process is outside of anything an author can control—no matter how they publish. I wrote 10 PUBLISHING MYTHS to give authors realistic expectations  and practical help. You can get decades of insights in 10 PUBLISHING MYTHS for only $10, free shipping and over $200 of bonuses.

New Podcasts:

In these articles, Ive encouraged you to use PodMatch or some similar tool to book and record podcasts. Last week one more podcast recording launched:


Lou, Teresa and I spoke about how to create a solid book proposal and business plan on the Earrings Off Podcast. Listen to our conversation at: https://bit.ly/4sPu1n9 Then get a free copy of Terry's book at: https://bookproposals.ws/ #publishingtip #writingtip 

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Sunday, March 08, 2026


Willing If Asked

 

By Terry Whalin @terrywhalin

If you are reading this article and you are honest, I suspect you have some big dreams for your writing. Who do you want to reach or what type of readership do you want to grow? Are you trying to change your world or make a valuable contribution to it? In this article, I want to tell some stories and give you some action points for your writing life.

First, lets talk about asking and your motivation. In the Epistle of James, he writes, “You desire but do not have, so you kill. You covet but you cannot get what you want, so you quarrel and fight. You do not have because you do not ask God. When you ask, you do not receive, because you ask with wrong motives, that you may spend what you get on your pleasures.” James 4:2-3 (NIV). Notice you have to take action (ask) and have the right motivation when you ask.

As Ive written in these articles,  for the last 13 years Ive worked as an acquisitions editor at Morgan James Publishing. Authors, literary agents and others approach me about their book proposals and pitches. I want to tell you about someone in the “other” category who approached me. Within the publishing community, Ive read that at any given day there are over a million proposals and manuscripts in circulation. You breakthrough these incredible numbers as you make the right connection and the right pitch at the right time. Your persistence and consistency will pay off for you if you dont give up.

Many years ago, I wrote a couple of books for Pearson Education and worked with an editor. Through LinkedIN we maintained our connection. This editor moved away from her publisher and is a freelance editor/ ghostwriter/ publishing fixer. She ghostwrote a proposal and a manuscript for two health care CEOs. One author is in New York City and the other is in Australia. 

With an excellent book proposal, these authors landed a top literary agent who shopped the book to many different publishers--including all of the big five publishers. Their proposal was rejected over and over. Ultimately the agent dropped the project (which happens). The editor remembered our work from years ago and reached out to me at Morgan James. I read the proposal, put it in the consideration process, spoke with the authors and my colleagues, then got them a book contract which they signed. Im giving you these details so you can see how the process works and the importance of maintaining and using your connections.

Last November, these authors were keynote speakers at a large health conference in Boston. Because they worked with Morgan James, they had real books to sell at their event--even though the book doesnt release in the bookstores (brick and mortar plus online) until the end of this month. From my publishing experience, many publishers would not have produced this book early and ahead of their schedule to help these authors sell books. The choice you make as an author of your publisher is an important one. Are they flexible? Are they willing to go the extra mile to help you so everyone can sell books? These questions and others are important ones to ask and discover the answers--before you sign with them.

I want to tell you another aspect about this book that I have been working on--one that is rare and Ive never done before as an editor. I wanted to help these authors get book reviews when the book launched. Ive written many reviews but I do not write reviews for books that Ive brought into Morgan James because of the conflict of interest. Instead I worked the book review need from a different angle. 

I ordered a series of print copies, then I reached out one by one to some of my reading friends. I told them about the book, sent them the catalog page and asked if they would be interested in reading the book and asked if they would write an honest review about the book. Also I asked for their mailing address to make sure I had the right address. 

As these friends agreed to read the book (and some of my friends said no thanks), I packed the book and mailed it to them. In the package, I sent the catalog page (remind them when the book is releasing), a note thanking them and reminding them of their commitment to write an honest review. If I knew they probably havent written many book reviews, I also printed a book review template with questions to help them. In case, youve not seen it, I wrote a promotion page for 10 Publishing Myths (follow this link). 

My little behind-the-scenes book review campaign is still in the works because this book doesn't officially launch for several more weeks. The actual results have not happened yet but I know for certain that asking and following through is going to make some difference in the promotion of this book. The book is Your Aging Advantage I encourage you to follow the link and download the ebook version.

To conclude this article, what types of dreams and plans do you have for your writing? Who in your connections can help you and are you willing to ask them? Will you follow through with your plans? I encourage you to dream big and reach out to others and ask for their help then see what happens.

Let me know in the comments, what plans you are making or who you will ask? I look forward to your comments.

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I’m working at my third publisher as an acquisition’s editor. I’ve spoken with numerous authors about their books and their expectations. I find many of them have unrealistic expectations about publishing. It doesn’t matter what type of book they are writing—fiction, nonfiction, a children’s book or a coffee table book. Each type of book contains its own challenges and complexity. Many aspects of the publishing process are outside of anything an author can control. I wrote  10 PUBLISHING MYTHS to give authors practical help. You can get decades of insights in 10 PUBLISHING MYTHS for only $10, free shipping and over $200 of bonuses. 

New Podcasts:

In these articles, Ive encouraged you to use PodMatch or some similar tool to book and record podcasts. Last week one more podcast recording launched:


Cameron Cowan (@cameroncowan) and I spoke about the  publishing on The Cameron Journal Podcast. Listen or watch at: https://bit.ly/4rmtCXT

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Sunday, March 01, 2026


Change Is Hard


By Terry Whalin @terrywhalin

Change is hard and no one (including me) likes to change. Yet change is how we grow, improve and become better every day. In this article for The Writing Life, I encourage you that each of us have resistance to change, then we have to make a decision and finally get a result.

The Resistance

As an author, for my writing life, I have created and used a variety of habits and systems. My goal is to be consistent and to reach new areas of the market and find readers. For example, every day I post 12 to 15 times on social media. I have been doing this pattern for years on three different “rented” platforms (that I do not control). The engagement or feedback from these actions is often minimal. Sometimes I wonder if anyone is reading them but I continue doing it. About the time I think about stopping someone responds and shows me that people do read these actions.

Since I started my blog in 2004, I have been writing these weekly articles. Because of my consistency, the blog has over 1800 entries and about 400 people receive my new articles on their email. In addition, each week I send a different piece of writing to my newsletter. Through the years, my newsletter has been sporadic and inconsistent. I changed this pattern over a year ago and send it each week. Use this link to subscribe and get a free 87-page Ebook and my newsletter with my gratitude.

Beyond my work as an author, I have my regular work as an acquisitions editor at Morgan James Publishing. For the last 13 years Ive been working with authors, hearing about their new books then championing their book to my colleagues. Through this work, Im hopefully getting a contract that they will possibly sign and return to get their book into the bookstores. This work has its own patterns and systems. As with any work, Morgan James has continued to make shifts and changes. With this ebb and flow, some days my work is more successful than others. The bulk of it is in a familiar pattern.

Without going into unnecessary detail, sometimes my acquisitions work has been more successful with authors than others. Several months ago I continued doing the work but went through weeks with no authors completing their contract with Morgan James. Our founder David Hancock reached out to me with some suggestions for some shifts in my actions. In a completely normal fashion, at first I resisted making these changes, but I understand making these changes is important and can lead to improvements in results.

The Decision

I made a number of shifts in this process and began to use different tools in in the procedure. These changes were not easy. The first time I did these procedures, I made some mistakes (nothing fatal). I was committed to making these changes and improvements. Despite being hard, I continued forward.  Many of the decisions in the publishing process are outside of my control. Ive learned that I can control my actions and my decisions. In that effort, I continue to try and be the best person that I can be for myself and my authors. Its not a straight forward decision but a journey and a process. 
 
The Result

While the results of my changes are not complete, I can tell you the improvements have made for increasing results. Im certain there will be additional changes in the future but Im committed to continuing to do my part (large or small) in this process. In a number of areas, Im becoming better every day and continue to learn and grow.

What about your journey as a writer or communicator? What resistance do you have to change and how can you decide to become better every day? Let me know in the comments below and I look forward to your feedback.

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Let’s be honest. Publishing is a complex business and much of the process is outside of anything an author can control—no matter how they publish. I I wrote 10 PUBLISHING MYTHS to give authors realistic expectations  and practical help. You can get decades of insights in 10 PUBLISHING MYTHS for only $10, free shipping and over $200 of bonuses.

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Sunday, February 22, 2026


Don't Count Your Chickens

 


By Terry Whalin @terrywhalin

There is an old saying that figures into our lives as writers, “Dont count on your chickens until they hatch.” These chickens lay eggs but the reality is until they hatch, you cant depend on getting a new baby chick.

In the early days of my writing life, Ill admit I counted chickens before they hatched. I wrote query letters to magazine editors and counted on an acceptance and payment. I crafted book proposals then pitched them to agents and editors. The agent would take my proposal to pitch traditional publishers. I believed the literary agent would find a publisher. I believed the publisher would sell my book into bookstores and I would earn royalties. I believed my book would earn back its advance and then additional royalties.

For the last 13 years, Ive been an acquisitions editor at Morgan James Publishing. With authors and agents, I work to understand their book, see if it is a good fit for our publisher, then pitch the book to my colleagues. When I get a contract, I send it to the author (or agent) and believe they will sign it and publish with us. When I bring an active author into the publisher, I believe they will sell books in the bookstore. I believe bookstores will carry the book and sell it to readers.

While it is great to be optimistic and have these beliefs, here's the downside: I'm counting my publishing before it happens. I'm assuming actions outside of anything that I can control. The truth is many of these things dont happen and breed disappointment and regret. 

Without beating the image, I hope you can begin to see the challenge with this attitude of counting on actions which are outside of your control. 

What I Do Instead

These actions are not easy because in many ways I loved counting on results which were outside of my control. I encourage you to take a different mindset. Heres a series of actions you can do:

1. Enjoy the journey. Celebrate the new relationships you can form and foster. For example, last week I connected with a new person on LinkedIN. She emailed me and told about reading a couple of my books. I looked up her contact information which included her phone number. I dialed the number and had a great 30+ minute conversation. Its a simple example of what you can do. Keep expanding your relationships and helping others. As you enjoy the journey, you will find new opportunities for your writing life.

2. Continual to learn and grow. No working writer ever stops learning and trying new possibilities--including me. Recently one of my friends, Alice Crider, offered a five day book proposal challenge. It starts on Monday but use the link and you can still do it.  While I have a lot of book proposal experience (and a book about it), I know I will learn some new insights in these sessions. 

3. When Others Succeed, Celebrate. Often throughout my day, I will read newsletters and other things from authors. I celebrate their success and will write a short email or repost somthing on a social media website. There are dozens of different actions but Im encouraging you to celebrate others.

4. With Your Opportunities, follow-up. I have a number of authors where Ive championed their book to my colleagues and gotten them a book contract. They have not signed it and returned it (as I said earlier, it's something I cant control or predict). I can gently follow-up with them and see if they have any questions. Last week I made a number of these calls. Frequently I got their voicemail where I left a cheerful and enthusiastic message for them. Maybe I sent them a contract weeks or months ago. I continued to follow-up. My experience in this area tells me that the longer it takes someone to respond and return their contract, the less likely it is they will publish their book with Morgan James Publishing. Knowing this track record does not prevent me from making those follow-up calls. Through the years, Ive had a few authors surprise me and engage with questions, sign and return their contract. 

I have one certain fact: if I dont follow-up, then the author will not know that I continue to pull for their success and want them to publish with Morgan James. The follow-up work is something that I can do. Maybe they will not publish the book that I'm calling about but because of the good experience with my follow-up, they will give us an opportunty on their next book. See the optimism and hope and action that is built into my attitude about follow-up? I hope so.

What actions are you going to take so that you have the right mindset? Let me know in the comments below.

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When I’ve worked with different publishers on a variety of  books, I’ve learned the hard way that much of the publishing process is outside of anything an author can control. As an editor, I’ve spoken with different authors about their books, I’ve found many unrealistic expectations. There are actions every author can take with their books. I wrote  10 PUBLISHING MYTHS to give authors practical help. You can get decades of insights in 10 PUBLISHING MYTHS for only $10, free shipping and over $200 of bonuses.

New Podcasts:

In these articles, Ive encouraged you to use PodMatch or some similar tool to book and record podcasts. Last week one more podcast recording launched:


Author and coach Tommy Thompson (@TommyPThompson) I spoke for a second time on the Space for Life Podcast. Heres our first conversation: https://bit.ly/4g4b5uO In this new podcast, we talked about how to start writing and actually get published at: https://bit.ly/46gBov3  Also check out my book Jumpstart Your Publishing Dreams at: https://jumpstartdreams.com/ 

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Sunday, February 15, 2026


Overcome Your Challenges

 

By Terry Whalin @terrywhalin

Think about your writing life. Do you have a series of “cants” about what you can or cant write? For example, some writers say they cant write outside of their office and need quiet in order to be able to create their stories. Others say they need to be in the corner of a coffee shop to do their best writing. 

My journalism training taught me to ditch the cants. I can write in a noisy city room full of reporters on the phone, talking and even banging out their stories. I can write on an airplane. I can write in a hotel room. I can write during a busy conference. I can also write in the quiet of my office. The critical element is sitting in your chair at your keyboard and moving your fingers cranking out words. It does not happen in your mind but only through your actions. I encourage you to try it and experiment with those negatives and conquer them. It will make you a more flexible writer.

As writers, each of us have experiences which could prevent our writing and moving forward. During my years as an editor, Ive heard almost every possible excuse why an author did not meet their deadline. After listening to their story, I grant them the extension and set a new deadline. When they move forward, we will get a manuscript and be able to publish it and get it into the bookstores. I cant do that work for them but I can do it with them.

Last week I faced my own challenge. A tech person worked remotely on my desktop and killed the sound and produced a number of other behind-the-scenes errors. Another remote tech person worked for over and hour, but he could not resolve the errors. My only path forward was to disconnect my desktop and take it into the store for repair. Talk about a painful path! I have a lot of writing and specialized programs and other details on this computer. Plus it is connected to my printer. Because it was my only path for repair, I took it to the store and had to leave it for three days. 

Did I stop working for those days? No, I began using my laptop which I rarely use. This computer doesnt have many of the tools I needed. It took time and energy but I persisted. While it was not rapid, I continued to get the necessary work completed. I met with my Morgan James authors and answered their questions. Two of them signed their contracts last week and other things happened despite these interruptions. 

At the end of the day, its about your mindset in this situation. Do you persist and try different options or do you quit? My encouragement is for you to find your path forward with your writing life. Maybe you have to skip some television or get up a bit earlier or stay up later at night to get your writing done. It is critical to keep moving forward despite the challenges. 

This week I heard bestselling author Darren Hardy encourage us to enjoy the journey in the midst of the ups and downs of our lives as writers and entrepreneurs. Also he includes two hashtags and says them on a regular basis: #BeTheException and #BetterEveryDay  Notice these words are focused on the journey and not the end result.

There are many of lifes experiences which are outside of my control. Through hard experience, Ive learned there is only one person on the planet where I have any measure of control: me

As a final key point with your writing: focus on your readers and serve them. Make a conscious choice to serve your readers with a well-crafted story or point them to a new tool or resource. Your path forward is filled with many choices and opportunitites. 

What steps are you taking to be the exception and become better every day?How are you overcoming the challenges in your everyday life? Let me know in the comments below.

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Publishing is a complex business and much of the process is outside of anything an author can control—no matter how they publish. I wrote 10 PUBLISHING MYTHS to give authors realistic expectations  and practical help. You can get decades of insights in 10 PUBLISHING MYTHS for only $10, free shipping and over $200 of bonuses.

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