By Terry Whalin @terrywhalin
From working with many different
authors over the years, I know some authors can be pushy. They may or may not be
aware of the way they come across (to give them the benefit of my doubts). Yet
they still come across as pushy and demanding. In this article, I want to
caution you about such an attitude and hopefully you will take a few minutes to
look inside and see if this is how you come across—and make steps to
change.
There are several aspects of the
publishing world that may seem common sense at first—but I need to make explicit
in this article. While you may think there are many people in this community, in
some ways it is a small community—and we talk with each other (at
events, through email and on the phone). Also within a publishing company like
Morgan James
Publishing, we are speaking with each other about our authors. Most of the
time those exchanges are positive but not always.
As you work with your editor or
assigned person within the publishing house, I encourage you to be aware that
you are making an impression—positive and negative. When I worked inside another
publisher, I always remember the complaints the “editorial assistant” who
answered the phone took from prospective authors. This editorial assistant
worked in the next cubical and sometimes I could overhear her side of the
conversation. These pushy authors were making an impression—and not a good one.
If you are an author with
multiple book projects that you want to publish, that is normally a good thing.
Publishers and literary
agents are looking for authors with multiple projects. Here's the exception
to this general rule: pushy authors, difficult authors, demanding authors—do not
get another opportunity. Hopefully you see the danger. In the heat of the
moment, you were pushing on some aspect (timing of your book, the cover design,
the title, or whatever) and this conversation made an impression—and not the one
you wanted.
Now fast-forward in time to when
you pitch your next book to this agent or publishing house, you get an
unexpected “no thank you.” The response is surprising because you wanted to
continue the relationship—yet it has suddenly gone into a pause. You've
forgotten the
easiest answer for any editor or agent is no thank you. Yes takes time and is built (at least
partially) on your relationship with this person. If you are pushy, that action
plays into future books.
Here's some basics in this
area:
1. Never burn a bridge to
a relationship. None of us can see our future and that person may be
important to you or your work at a later time. Always keep extending not
limiting your relationships.
2. Every interaction is
important so have respect. Whether a person is brand new or been in the
industry for decades. Your interaction is important so treat others with
respect.
3. Kindness and respect
is always valued and remembered. Your actions may not have an immediate
return but will pay off in the long-run. Always express appreciation and
gratitude—verbally, through notes and many other ways.
I've rarely seen this aspect of
publishing discussed but it is important. Maybe I'm missing a basic concept or
something you have learned. I look forward to your comments and
feedback.
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