When You Fall Behind
By Terry Whalin @terrywhalin
As writers, each of have the same time constraints—24
hours. Within that time, there are family responsibilities and other things
which cut into our work time. A week ago I went to a live event in Louisville,
Kentucky with over 850 people in attendance. I spent the majority of those
days meeting and connecting with new people to see if they will be potential
authors for Morgan James Publishing. Through the years, I've been finding many of my authors for
Morgan James through live events. With a pandemic, these events haven't been
happening but have returned. I'm grateful for these opportunities but when I
seize them, I understand that I fall behind in other aspects of my work. Also I
understand the initial meeting is important but the real work happens through
the follow-up emails and phone calls—which require even more time and energy
which makes me fall even further behind.
When you fall behind, you have two basic choices. You can
get overwhelmed and stalled so little happens during your day. The other choice
is the one is to lean into these opportunities. Every day I write a few of these
new contacts and follow-up on my conversations with them. Also I continue to do
my social media posts and work on my current writing projects. Here's some other
“truths:”
--you have to take your own responsibility for
your own success
--if you don't do the work, it simply does not get
done—follow-up emails, phone calls and other aspects
--you have to chip away at the work one day at a time until
it gets done
As I've mentioned in some of these entries, every day I
leave with work which did not get done—pages that didn't get written, phone
calls that did not get made and emails that did not get answered. I'm grateful
for the work but this reality is inherent in the process. No one can be a master
of every aspect of the publishing work. We have to make choices what we write or
create or do. Because of those choices, other things are not able to happen.
Life is a balancing act and each of us have to find our place in the
world.
Here's some things I've learned which help:
--use tools like your phone and scheduling tools like
Hootsuite to be
consistent
--continue to work at growing in your craft and storytelling
ability
--your commitment to communicate clearly and learn new
techniques will help
The publishing journey is complicated for each of us
and filled with many twists and turns. The people who continue in the
marketplace are the ones who have learned how to handle the bumps and the delays
and the feelings of being behind. These people continue to keep their fingers on
the keyboard and produce in spite of the rejection—and every one of us
(including me) gets rejected. This rejection is business and not personal (even
if on the surface it feels personal). My encouragement is for you to continue
moving forward—even when you fall behind.
How do you handle your writing
life when you fall behind? Let me know in the comments below.
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2 Comment:
Great advice, as always, Terry. Thanks!
Kay,
Thank you for the feedback which I always apprecaite.
Terry
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